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Imagine Asks Volunteers: Have We Kept Our Promise?

Imagine recently asked our volunteers if we have kept our promise to them to create a safe and supportive place to volunteer. Here is just one of many responses we received. This one is from Rob Shaffer, volunteering at Imagine since October 2018.

Supporting Students After a Suicide Loss

When a student dies, the school will be compelled to respond in a meaningful way. The first step in any type of postvention is to meet with the immediate family of the deceased student so that their wishes are respected, and their needs are being met. Some of the other important things while responding to a suicide loss as a school professional can be found in this blog.

Talking with Children about Tragic Events

Here are some things to keep in mind as you talk with your children following tragic events. We cannot avoid the tension in the air and the fact that many of our children will probably know about an event before we figure out what to say to them, thanks to 24/7 news and social media. So while we gather our own thoughts and process our own emotions, we must also figure out what to say to children and teens, and how to be supportive of them. Here are some suggestions to follow as you discuss these events with youth.

Mom Was Still Alive, But She Was Gone.

So Was I Experiencing Grief -- or Something Else?By Bari AdelmanMy mom's Alzheimer's Disease seemed to sneak up on our family. We weren't sure exactly when it hit, but month by month it got worse and worse. Six years ago, as the disease was snowballing, I wrote an essay to describe the experience. Here are some excerpts:My heart hurts. I just got off the phone with my sweet, darling mom. I have the…

Was I Really Brought Up in a Single-Parent Home?

Recently, my cousin asked me, with sincerity and care, “What was it like to be raised in a single- parent home?” I must admit the question took me a bit by surprise, and despite being a mature adult, I had to reassess my sense of family.

Take Care: Thoughts on Self-Care and Caregiving

“Take care!” We say that to others all the time. We want those who we care about to take good care of themselves. But do we, especially those of us who are caregivers, know how to “take” care?

What to Say and Do When Someone is Grieving

All of us have said the wrong thing to someone who is grieving. Maya Angelou says, “When we know better, we do better.” If you say the wrong thing, apologize and remember that your loving presence is more powerful than any right or wrong thing you might say.

Grit, Perseverance, and Resilience... Cantor Fitzgerald and Imagine on Charity Day 9.11.18

This year on 9/11 Imagine had the privilege and opportunity to participate in Cantor Fitzgerald’s annual Charity Day in which Cantor and its affiliates, BGC Partners and GFI Group commemorate their 658 friends and colleagues and 61 Eurobrokers employees who perished on September 11, 2001. Each year on September 11th Cantor donates 100% of their global revenues to the Cantor Fitzgerald Relief Fund and selected charities around the world. This year, Imagine was selected to participate, and was fortunate to have actor Kimiko Glenn of Orange is the New Black, as our celebrity ambassador. Since its inception, Charity Day has raised and distributed over $147 million globally.

Dealing with Grief, by Tess Worrell of Family Matters

Listen without judging. Tell the truth. Offer choices. This article gets it right in how to help your kids cope with loss.

Traumatized Children Finally Getting the Attention They Need and Deserve - Oprah Shines a Spotlight on Childhood Trauma

The death of a parent is a trauma for a child or teen. A parent is a child’s first attachment, first love, the person they depend on for their very survival and often it is the very person to whom they would turn to for support after a loss.